I'm going to reinforce this.PinataPlethora wrote: ↑Thu Jun 07, 2018 5:47 pmCourtesy between players is important, but nobody needs your consent to RP with you, and if you're not satisfied with how they're RPing, you need to take it to a DM, rather than demanding justification directly. If you can have a polite conversation to clear up a misunderstanding, great. If they're anything less than completely cooperative and forthcoming, cut it off and go to the staff. That's what they're here for. All of this is what you agree to when you log in.Mercestes wrote: ↑Thu Jun 07, 2018 5:34 pmI'm going to 100% disagree with you right there and then shame on you for saying it.
95% of the OOC problems I encounter IG are resolved with a simple tell. If someone coughs up some knowledge about my character that they shouldn't know I /absolutely/ reserve the right to ask for justification OOC. And if you can't give it, I guarantee you there will be a screenshot and a report.
And if you're not willing to have an OOC discussion with me to offer IC justification or to give/obtain consent for RP, then do not interact with me or any of my characters, ever. My player name is Mercestes. I'll submit a character list if you want.
Personally, I don't respond to tells from other players demanding that I explain myself. Questions are fine. Hostility never ends well.
This started well up until: "And if you're not willing to have an OOC discussion with me to offer IC justification or to give/obtain consent for RP, then do not interact with me or any of my characters, ever. "
That's not a good attitude at all, and really goes against the spirit of Be Nice.
I would actually recommend just sending in a report. It can be awkward to justify it, especially if you are going at it with an aggressive, hostile tone. You have no idea how many different ways people can learn things.